I want a relationship, but I only want to commit time to a man who’s willing to do the same for me. If we never see each other, then we’re not together. I won’t waste any more time on guys who doesn’t think I’m special enough to make time for me. It really is that…
When you’ve been single for a while, you end up finding yourself repeating the same dysfunctional patterns. You download dating apps, use them for a few weeks, then delete them again. Then, you decide to “put yourself out there” before convincing yourself it’s just not worth it. It’s an endless cycle that can leave you…
We’re all adults here and acting like it shouldn’t be that hard. Unfortunately, a lot of guys just don’t seem to know how to date or how to even be a legit human being. I keep hoping this will change but I’ve seen this behavior way too many times to be super optimistic. I want…
I’ve tried so hard to be the “cool,” easygoing girlfriend. You know the kind — she’s always laughing in pictures, confident AF, and guys love her because she’s just so easy to talk to and chilled all the time. But guess what? She’s not real. I learned this the hard way. I won’t lower my relationship…
It’s sad but true — I don’t know why, but I find it almost impossible to truly trust guys. It isn’t just the men I date, either, though that’s my worst issue. I feel like most men can’t be trusted. I don’t even trust my dad all the time! It sucks living this way, and…
My mom and I have never had a good relationship, and now that I’m older and slightly wiser, I’m beginning to notice the effect it’s had on me. Frankly, my “mommy issues” are getting in the way of healthy relationships and I don’t know what to do about it. My first heartbreak was the first…
Everyone knows that giving away your power in a relationship is a no-no. However, I did it so often with guys that I lost count. It’s funny how I used to think I was strong and had loads of self-love, only to realize that I was acting weak AF around men. Thankfully, by noticing what…
